Larkin’s kindness.
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Mentioning my love for Larkin’s poetry to new acquaintances always generates the same response:  “Great poet, but a terrible man.”   The speaker often goes on: “Wasn’t he a two-timing misogynist, lover of pornography, and admirer of the Nazi’s?”   It therefore pleased me last week to meet someone with a kinder memory of Larkin.  

I met John Ford, also a Librarian, at the British Stammering Association Congress at Imperial College London on 7 Sept 2002.  He recalled meeting Larkin at the old Poetry Society headquarters in Earls Court Square in the late 60s, which would have been about the time that Larking was finally gaining  control over his own stammer.  Anyway John Ford was stammering very badly during a coffee break conversation after a reading.  Larkin saw his difficulties and moved over and began to talk to him. John cannot now remember what he said but, as anyone who stammers would, appreciated the human kindness.  It’s all too easy to steer away from a person who is stammering.  

John also says that when he told the story some years ago, someone said that it could never have happened, as Larkin never visited the society.  Perhaps it happened somewhere else.  John also recalls that the late John Wain, in his opinion a much under-rated fiction writer, was there on that day, and would have rather enjoyed being asked about it.

I certainly enjoyed being told about it.

Jim Thornton.

Nottingham 14 Sept 2002

 

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